The Confrontational Nature of Squares and Oppositions
In many natal charts, we can find two planets that each seem to have a different agenda. One part of the personality wants to do things one way, and anther part wants things done a very different way. The resulting tension frequently pulls our attention, and sometimes we are left believing that we have a flaw in our character.
Oppositions – planets that are 180° apart in the chart – tend to create a back-and-forth style of dilemma. At times, we cater to one planet’s needs, but as a result, the other planet, the neglected one, demands our attention. It can be an ongoing challenge to have the two sides either take turns or come to some compromise.

Two planets that are square one another (90° apart) reveal parts of our personality that are at cross purposes with one another. Often one planet may provoke the other. We can experience this as one part of our personality operating in a way that makes another part very uncomfortable. We feel tripped-up in life when we experience this inner imbalance. We carry on, hoping other people don’t notice that we mess ourselves up.
Frequently labelled the “hard” aspects in the chart, squares and oppositions often describe the key challenges in a person’s story.
Bring your chart. Let’s track down any oppositions and squares, and find the ones that are closest to being exact. (Hint: scanning the aspect grid makes this easy.) Let’s see if we can articulate these inner turmoils, and try to find ways of honouring and soothing these contrasting facets of our personality.

Saturday, October 18, 2025
11:30 am to 1:00 pm
NEW VENUE: Sechelt Seniors Activity Centre
5604 Trail Ave
Sechelt, BC
Suggested donation: $10